7 Wedding Ceremony Traditions You Can Totally Reimagine


When it comes to wedding ceremony ‘traditions,’ there are no hard and fast rules—especially when so many of these customs, in today’s world, just don’t feel very… you. Many couples often feel an overwhelming pressure to follow the way we’ve been doing weddings for years, but the heart of the matter is, it’s your day and it should absolutely be your way.

Aside from the essential legal component, what you choose to do at your wedding is entirely up to you! Whether you're planning a grand celebration or something more intimate, here are seven common traditions that you can boldly reimagine in a fun and personal way.

7 wedding ceremony traditions you can totally reimagine

a twist on tradition

  1. Walking Down the Aisle
    Why not walk down the aisle together as a couple? Or bring a friend, sibling, or even your dog along for the ride? The important thing is feeling supported—who you walk with is totally up to you. You may even choose to ditch this completely!

  2. Wedding Attire
    Who says you need to stick to white dresses or matching suits? Rock a jumpsuit, bold colors, or mix-and-match outfits that reflect your personality and style.

  3. Vows
    Forget stuffy vows! Write ones that reflect your unique relationship. Add in jokes, shared memories, or promises that’ll make your guests smile—like always sharing the last slice of pizza. Check out my tips on how to nail the perfect vows for you.

  4. Flower Crew
    Instead of young flower people, why not have a whole flower crew of your best friends? Or even your grandparents? You could even swap out petals for something else, like confetti, handwritten notes or an interpretive dance?

  5. First Dance
    Traditional slow dance? Not necessary! Choreograph something fun, mash-up your favorite songs, or invite everyone to join in and make it a full-on dance party from the start.

  6. Cutting the Cake
    Swap the cake for a dessert bar, gelato van, or even a cheese platter. Or, skip the cutting altogether and just dig in!

  7. Tossing the Bouquet
    Instead of the bouquet toss, give flowers or gifts to someone special, or turn it into a game or dance-off!

Remember: your wedding, your rules. Add a little twist to tradition and transform your ceremony into a beautifully unique moment that you and your loved ones will cherish and remember forever. Use this opportunity to express your love in a way that feels completely authentic to you both!

No cookie-cutter approach here. Get in touch about how we can make your wedding memorable and untraditional!

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